also

i think my love language is being listened to. because in the last like 5 years i have been in many places of my life where people didn't listen to me, maybe not even on purpose. but it just never mattered what i said. like while i was talking, they were only thinking about what they were going to say next and i felt worthless and like i wasn't worth knowing. and thats why (probably, i am assuming) being listened to is something that really means a lot. no one likes being ignored, no one in the world does. but it really means a lot to me to have someone that values and cares about what i say and thinks i am worth listening to. thats probably the best feeling i could ever even feel.